My Husband With Scholar Syndrome

Chapter 16? You Must Be Dazzling

Professor Feng is a professor of psychology at Yuncheng University. His main research area is children with autism. He has been helping Shirakawa since Shirakawa was five years old. Do psychological counselling. It can be said that Shirakawa can recover so well. In addition to the two windows of Grandma Bai and Xiaoya Mu, Professor Feng has contributed a lot.

Today is the weekend. Professor Feng is doing voluntary counselling at the special children's nursing home. When Bai Zheng called, he was chatting with an autistic child. He heard Mu Xiaoya coming over, and Professor Feng was vacant for 20 minutes.

Mu Xiaoya arrived half an hour in advance, because Professor Feng's treatment was not over, she and Shirakawa could only wait.

Mu Xiaoya came to this kind of place for the first time, and she couldn't help but be curious, so she waited for half an hour and took Shirakawa to stroll around the yard. But after only walking for ten minutes, Mu Xiaoya couldn't stand it anymore. She pulled Shirakawa back to the waiting room, and felt uncomfortable for a while.

Shirakawa took a look at Mu Xiaoya, and then he stepped forward and gave Mu Xiaoya a hug.

"Ogawa?" Mu Xiaoya shouted in doubt.

"You are sad." Shirakawa's voice came from behind Mu Xiaoya's ears. "When sad, you need a hug."

Mu Xiaoya was surprised, she taught to Shirakawa. But is your expression so obvious? Obviously Shirakawa could see it.

"Do you know what I'm upset about?" Mu Xiaoya couldn't help asking.

"I don't know." Shirakawa shook his head. He didn't know why Mu Xiaoya was suddenly sad. He felt vaguely that he felt sad when he was walking in the yard just now, but they obviously didn't encounter anything.

"I saw those people outside and thought of you before." If there was no white grandma, if Shirakawa was not born in a wealthy family, would he be the same as those outside. Wearing sick clothes, squatting squatting in the grass, looking up at the leaves and the sky, no one cares, no one cares. Day after day, year after year, just live like this for a lifetime?

Those people outside? Shirakawa glanced out the window, as if he had noticed other children in the yard at this time. He looked at the children, and he felt some familiarity. He remembered that he used to stay like this.

"I'm not outside." Shirakawa didn't think it was bad to stay so. He likes to stay so. The world is quiet. He can think about many things. But Mu Xiaoya likes to be lively. She always talks to him humbly, so he has to deal with it.

"Well, fortunately, you are not outside." This is Mu Xiaoya's most thankful place. Fortunately, Shirakawa loves his family so much. He did not give up on him and did not let him be one of those children outside.

Well, although I don't understand why Xiaoya doesn't like him outside, but since she doesn't like it, he won't go outside.

The understanding of the two was very different, but they reached a strange agreement.

"Sorry, let the two wait a long time." At this moment, the office door was pushed open, and Professor Feng came in.

Mu Xiaoya hurriedly stood up from Shirakawa's arms, with a hint of embarrassment on her face: "Professor Feng."

"Hehehe ..." Professor Feng smiled at Mu Xiaoya, who was a little embarrassed, and teased, "The young couple have a good relationship."

"..." Mu Xiaoya blushed suddenly.

"Sit, sit, let's sit down and talk." Professor Feng motioned for them to sit down.

Mu Xiaoya sat back in her chair, and Shirakawa also sat next to Mu Xiaoya. From the moment Professor Feng entered the door, Shirakawa only took a look at him and moved away. All his mind fell on Mu Xiaoya.

Well, Xiaoya is no longer sad. Shirakawa raised his mouth happily.

He noticed that Professor Feng raised his eyebrows in surprise.

"Mu Xiaoya, I waited for you to come to me. I waited for a long time." Withdrawing his gaze, Professor Feng looked at Mu Xiaoya.

"?" Mu Xiaoya was puzzled.

"You may not know, I have known you a long time ago, and have known each other for about ten years." Professor Feng laughed.

"Have we met?" Mu Xiaoya was even more surprised. She didn't remember having met with Professor Feng, and she was a primary school student ten years ago.

"Yes, through Xiaochuan." Professor Feng looked at Shirakawa with a smile.

After hearing his name, Shirakawa gave a subconscious glance at Professor Feng, but soon moved away. But this look alone has made Professor Feng very pleased. For so many years, there has been no Baizhi. At least Shirakawa is willing to take care of him.

"Through Ogawa?" Mu Xiaoya looked puzzled.

"Yes," Professor Feng explained. "A long time ago, it was probably half a year after Ogawa followed his grandmother to live in the old house. During a treatment, I discovered your existence."

"Ogawa mentioned me to you?"

"Yes. But to be precise, I discovered you first." Professor Feng explained, "At that time, Ogawa would not actively communicate with people. I found you in his paintings. Usually I closed myself. Children with symptoms do not like to talk at first. We are very difficult during treatment. We can only stimulate them through various auxiliary pathways, and then find what they are interested in from their reactions. Ogawa has scholar syndrome, so he He has special talents in some aspects. In addition to mathematics, his paintings are also very good. Our first communication was through painting. From his paintings, we can see a part of the world in his eyes. "

"In the beginning, Shirakawa's paintings were meaningless landscapes, and sometimes even intricate lines. It was difficult for us to find what he was interested in. Until one day, a girl was added to his paintings. Professor Feng hoped to Mu Xiaoya.

Mu Xiaoya couldn't help but jump, without Professor Feng saying, she could guess that the girl was herself.

"The painting was put away by Ogawa's family. You should have a chance to see it when you have a chance." Professor Feng said, "It is the most colorful of all paintings that Ogawa has ever painted. You can imagine that in his eyes Here, it must be dazzling, and he will render you with so many colors. "

Am I dazzling in Shirakawa's eyes?

When she heard these words for the first time, Mu Xiaoya was a little surprised. She looked back at Shirakawa and asked for a certificate, but Shirakawa didn't have much expression on her face.

Professor Feng looked down at the time, and he had ten minutes to go to the next treatment.

"Bai Yan said, do you have something to ask me?" With ten minutes left, it should be enough to answer Mu Xiaoya's question.

"Yes." Mu Xiaoya quickly converged, and seriously consulted Shirakawa's condition. "Professor Feng, I want to know, what causes stimulate Ogawa's disease? Is there any way to prevent it? Also, I was with Ogawa What to look out for at that time. "

Professor Feng frowned, thinking for a moment and then said, "Autism patients receive stimuli from the outside and react differently from normal people, such as sound, color, and movement. All these things that fall into their eyes will produce unfavorable effects. The same effect. It may be infinitely enlarged and infinitely reduced. For example, some noise may be slightly absent in the ears of ordinary people, but in the ears of autistic patients, it seems that someone is holding high decibels. Your horn is roaring in your ear. On the contrary, some things that you may hear are noisy, but they can be ignored. People with autism have weak self-regulation ability, so once something is stimulated too much, they will Will erupt. "

Mu Xiaoya immediately thought of the current sound that stimulated Shirakawa's illness last night.

"In addition to noise, there are lights, and even some unreasonable objects." Professor Feng said, "Most autistic patients will have a certain degree of obsessive-compulsive disorder. In their living space, they will put Everything is placed where they think it should exist. If they mess up their things, they will feel uncomfortable and constantly want to return to the original. If they ca n't return to the original, they will be anxious, anxious to a certain degree, Will erupt. "

"So, I can't just move Ogawa's things, right?" Mu Xiaoya asked.

"Ogawa's response in this regard is quite gentle. Although he would also like to restore things to their original state, this is not enough to stimulate his illness. At most, he is uneasy. You usually pay more attention to it, but you don't have to be too I was worried. "

"In addition to these, what else should I pay attention to?" Mu Xiaoya nodded and continued to ask.

"Satiate his curiosity."

"curiosity?"

"Yes, although autistic people are closed in their own world, it does not mean that they have no curiosity. On the contrary, they have, not only, and are very strong, but this curiosity rarely shows to the outside world Come out. "Professor Feng said," So once they have a strong curiosity about something outside, then they must be satisfied, otherwise their emotions will be very anxious. It is like a child wants to get It 's just like a new toy that keeps crying. It 's just that people with autism have a harder time reconciling their emotions. They 're not as good as kids. "

Mu Xiaoya nodded and said she knew.

"Also, the emotional quotient of autistic patients is not high. When communicating with them, they must be simple and straightforward. Although Ogawa is very smart, his emotional quotient is still low, he does not lie, and does not know how to avoid it. These will cause some problems in life, such as asking some questions you do n't want to answer, insisting that you do something you do n't want to do, this time requires great patience. If you encounter this situation, the best solution is The way is of course to follow him, but if you don't want to, don't perfunctory or avoid him, try to reason with him, he can understand. "

Mu Xiaoya thought of Shirakawa's life and death to lift her clothes to check her injuries last night. This shows that this reason is probably not very easy to explain.

"So, what else can I do to help Ogawa recover?" Mu Xiaoya asked.

"Your company is the best recovery for him." Professor Feng laughed. "Of course, if you want some advice, I suggest you take him out for a walk, talk to him about social issues, or do some Sports will help him integrate into the society. In short, it will allow him to have more contact with the outside world and generate interest. The greater his interest in the outside world, the faster he will recover. "

"Then what should I do if Ogawa is sick?" Mu Xiaoya asked.

"I ... control." Shirakawa, who had been quietly listening to the two chatting, suddenly answered.

Mu Xiaoya stunned.

Professor Feng laughed happily: "At this pace, I think the chance of getting sick is very small. Even if it happens, it doesn't matter. Let him calm down and give him a hug as before."

Mu Xiaoya nodded solemnly.

"I control and do not get sick." Shirakawa still emphasized.

"Okay, I see." Mu Xiaoya coaxed.

Shirakawa frowned. He always felt that Mu Xiaoya was not very confident in him.

Then he must work harder and make Xiaoya confident in him.