Meng Li said some words to coax Yue Xiaowei, and then drove away Yue Xiaowei's unhappiness.
Then he took Yue Xiaowei to play for a while. This time Meng Li didn't abuse Yue Xiaowei so hard.
To make Yue Xiaowei have a sense of achievement, we can't always hurt other people's self-confidence.
Slowly let Yue Xiaowei know the beauty and happiness of family life, so that he won't miss the outside.
As a matter of fact, a 14-year-old child has not yet fully formed his three concepts. At this time, his plasticity is very strong.
Of course, it depends on who guides the child.
In the plot, Yue Xiaowei is guided by people outside, and then becomes like that.
After playing badminton, Meng Li fooled Yue Xiaowei into doing his homework.
Yue Xiaowei was originally reluctant, but seeing Meng Li's eager eyes, Yue Xiaowei felt that he was not too tired to do his homework.
Just now I was playing ball and jumping. It's better to sit and have a rest.
When they discuss the topic together, Meng Li tries to give Yue Xiaowei a positive look.
Children like Yue Xiaowei are actually problem children in school, and teachers certainly don't like them.
If she is a teacher, she doesn't like it either. She doesn't abide by the rules and regulations all day long, and she also likes to form a team for her teacher.
Good students will not like Yue Xiaowei, because Yue Xiaowei is a bad student in his school days.
Yue Xiaowei's current life circle is mainly composed of students, teachers and parents.
It's normal to get the affirmation from the teacher if you don't get the classmates. Then the parents should give them the praise and affirmation.
People who accept more praise and affirmation will become more confident.
I'm also interested in the things I'm praised for.
In the days after that, Yue Xiaowei in his school uniform was always ridiculed by his friends and looked at him with the eyes of traitors.
Yue Xiaowei's heart is also bitter. His mother has put away all the clothes at home. He has nothing to wear without school uniform.
And for a reason, if his mother put away his clothes for no reason, he can still make a scene.
Yue Xiaowei has nothing to do with the current situation.
And the teacher looked at Yue Xiaowei obediently dressed in school uniform, thought that Yue Xiaowei is to change, to be a good student.
This is equivalent to the prodigal son turning around and praising Yue Xiaowei in front of the whole class.
School uniforms are often checked by schools. They often have to face the situation of being scolded in Teachers' offices. When teachers see them, they think of Yue Xiaowei who used to be with them.
We can't compare far away, then we can't compare near.
Look at Yue Xiaowei. People wear school uniforms.
How good they are now.
I don't ask you to do well immediately, but your most basic behavior should be standardized, and you should abide by the rules of the school.
Hope to stimulate these rebellious students.
Well, at first, those boys thought Yue Xiaowei was the traitor among them and the first to surrender.
Now I still think Yue Xiaowei is so mean.
Even the teacher praised him.
Is it on purpose to please the teacher?
Let's go and learn that Yue Xiaowei is so out of place with them, and no one is going to hook up with him.
Yue Xiaowei is thin skinned and embarrassed to follow them all the time.
Just go home every day.
For several days in a row, Yue Xiaowei actually thinks it's good to go home early every day. After dinner, he can go out and do exercises, and then do exercises.
Several times he did several questions right, and his mother was very happy to praise him.
His mother didn't roar like before.
Anyway, Yue Xiaowei has little pressure in his heart.
Yue Xiaowei doesn't feel bored and depressed on such a day.
Even in class, Yue Xiaowei was willing to listen carefully for a while.
After listening to the class, I will do the questions.
Yue Xiaowei understood it this way.
He didn't find that doing the questions could bring him a sense of achievement.
When Yue Xiaowei wore his school uniform for the second week, those people couldn't bear it. They had the same big brother outside.
They all joined a so-called gang. Yue Xiaowei was not united front with them, which made them very angry. A week later, Yue Xiaowei showed no sign of correcting.
He decided to go to their elder brother to complain.
Then Yue Xiaowei was pulled by the so-called big brother to have a heart to heart talk.
Big brother a fierce flicker, that called a sincere, heartbroken, said that in the end, Yue Xiaowei actually feel that their approach is not really authentic.
From the moral point of view, he was the first to appear out of place.
It seems that this estrangement is also caused by him. If he doesn't take the lead every day, doesn't take the initiative to participate in any activities, and doesn't "share weal and woe", then they will be as good as before.
At this time, Yue Xiaowei's will is still very weak and easy to be influenced by others.On the other hand, because of Yue Xiaowei's worship of this "big brother", he thinks that he is very open-minded outside. Then, his words should be reasonable.
Then Yue Xiaowei, who had been obedient for several days, came home and asked Meng Li for clothes.
Meng Li is holding a toothpick to pick up the shrimp thread. Smelling the speech, he looks at Yue Xiaowei:
"how can he expect to have clothes again?"
Yue Xiaowei looked at Meng Li's disappointed eyes, clenched his fist in his school uniform, and said: "you don't care."
Meng Li said:
"have you forgotten the bet between us?"
Yue Xiaowei stares at Meng Li, purses two lips into a line, does not speak.
But the vision is very firm, there is no trace of retreat, to the will is very persistent.
Meng Li looked back, lowered his head and continued to pick the shrimp line, saying:
"if you can't keep your promise, not only do I look down on you, but others also look down on you."
Yue Xiaowei gritted his teeth and said: "I don't need people to look up to me."
Meng Li let out a meaningful sound.
Said:
"if I guess correctly, it should be your classmates who told you not to wear school uniform."
"You've been ostracized by them, haven't you?"
"Son, when a mother respects your right to make friends and does not interfere in your communication, she respects you and your classmates."
"Maybe you treat them as brothers in your heart. I didn't question your relationship before, but now I doubt if they really treat you as brothers too?"
Yue Xiaowei's heart trembled. Although he didn't understand why his mother knew all about his own affairs, he was still stubborn:
"of course we are good brothers."
Meng Li looked at Yue Xiaowei and said:
"a real brother, at least, should respect your choice. He doesn't want you to be a rebel."
"And ah, good brother, good friend, the best state should be to grow and progress together."
Yue Xiaowei pursed his lips and stood there, looking at Meng Li's understatement about him. His voice was soft without hysteria, but he put a stone on his heart for no reason. His heart was heavy and sour.
From the side, the fine lines at the corners of her eyes are obvious.
This time made him think she was very young.