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This time it's Meng Li's turn to wait outside. Qi Ma and Doctor Li go in to talk.
Dr. Li first had a detailed understanding of Qi Ma's education method. The deeper he talked, he found many problems.
Doctor Li and Qi's mother asked and answered, but Qi's mother found that she couldn't say something.
It's a little hard to say. In an instant, Qi's mother realized that she was wrong?
Just instinctively unwilling to speak out.
However, Dr. Li was originally engaged in this business, and it was easy for him to pry open Qi Ma's mouth. After knowing all about it, Dr. Li said to Qi Ma:
"sister in law, I feel that there are many problems with your parents."
Qi Ma's face was a little red, and she couldn't help saying:
"but this is the way I teach my children. After more than ten years, the children's performance is good. Can't we take credit for it?"
Doctor Li sighed and said:
"yes, you can't deny what you've paid. You know that the child's performance is good, so why never affirm her?"
Qi Ma choked and said:
"some words are too old for her to say."
Dr. Li said: "you put too much pressure on your children, and you don't give them the affirmation they should have. It makes them feel that there is no reward for their efforts. It's easy for them to get tired. One person needs all kinds of affirmation."
"If children don't have any good memories when they grow up, it's a pity."
Qi Ma retorted:
"everyone has his own way. Do you have to treat children according to a template or the rules in a book?"
Dr. Li shook his head in disapproval.
Qi Ma then said:
"think about it, all I do is for children, OK? I'm afraid that she will suffer from bad grades when she grows up. I'm afraid that she will fall in love, delay her study or be cheated. "
Dr. Li said: "in fact, it's normal to be ignorant in adolescence."
"Some children can live on their own, some children also need the correct guidance of their parents."
"Well, why don't you call brother Qi and let's have a talk?" Doctor Li looks at Qi Ma with a smile.
Qi Ma was silent. She looked up at Dr. Li for several times. She didn't know what had happened in her mind. Finally she agreed.
Qi's father was surprised to know that he was coming too. He said he couldn't get away from work.
Qi Ma scolded on the phone:
"the child belongs to me, right? So now that something goes wrong, it's up to me to talk about it, isn't it? "
Facing Qi's father, Qi's mother has no patience.
She thinks Dr. Li shouldn't criticize her alone, and Qi's father is also responsible.
Qi dad saw his wife angry, also don't want to give his wife entanglement, don't depend on her, she will make trouble, no way, can only ask for leave, came.
When I enter the door, I see Meng Li. Meng Li shouts his father.
Qi's father gave a hum and went to see Dr. Li.
Then they were successfully told by Dr. Li.
Both father and mother are speechless.
Originally, they came to show their children their psychology, but instead they were told.
To be honest, they are all tens of years old. It's very unpleasant to be criticized suddenly.
However, Dr. Li's main purpose is to make Qi's parents realize that they are not right, so he also used a lot of technical conversation, and even gave them many cases to tell them the importance of their children's mental health.
But let Qi father Qi mother heart that point of sudden resentment to dissipate.
At that moment, I realized some of my faults.
Today's mood is determined to change. Although they don't mind getting along with their children like this, their mental health seems to be very serious. If they don't pay attention to it, what about the protagonists in the cases mentioned by Dr. Li?
That's a sad and sad ending.
However, in line with the principle of a slap does not make a sound, they feel that the child actually has a problem.
Then Meng Li was tutored by teacher Li.
Meng Li is helpless, but for the sake of Qi Ma and Qi PA's cooperation, she can only accept it.
After all, it is undeniable that there are more or less problems with the client.
I don't know whether the client has seen this scene now, or whether the client can listen to Dr. Li's words.
I talked a lot, Meng Li was very cooperative.
Force yourself to cooperate, try to regard yourself as the client, and feel the client's thoughts before speaking.
It's two o'clock in the afternoon since Dr. Li came out. Everyone is still empty.
Three people walking together, Qi dad walking in the front, Qi MA in the middle, Meng Li hanging in the last, the distance between the three people is very awkward, not intimate at all, the atmosphere is more awkward.
Meng Li is not embarrassed, but Qi's father and mother seem embarrassed, very uncomfortable.After all, it is to break the inherent mode of getting along, which undoubtedly requires more attention.
We have to make things more natural.
When she got to the car, Qi's father drove. Qi's mother had opened the front passenger's door. When she saw Meng Li's back seat drill, she closed the front passenger's door and sat in the back seat with Meng Li.
Meng Li feels that Qi's mother is uncomfortable.
When she didn't speak, Qi dad started the car and asked:
"where are you going?"
Qi Ma wanted to say that she would go home, but she took it back from her mouth. She pretended to be kind, but in fact she asked Meng Li in an awkward way:
"yes, where do you want to go?"
Meng Li's tender voice sounded:
"listen to mom."
Qi Ma awkwardly said goodbye to her broken hair. She said:
"then three of us go out to dinner?"
"I think it's OK," Qi said
"What would you like to eat?" Qi Ma tried to ask Meng Li in a gentle tone.
Meng Li sighed in his heart. In fact, he might not be so careful for a few days, because he would be very tired.
It's easy to be beaten back to the original shape, and it's hard to change a person's inherent character through a conversation with a psychologist.
But it is gratifying that the parents of the client are willing to change for the sake of the client, and they are not all indifferent.
Since there is a change now, Meng Li will not resist.
"I squeezed my arms and moved to my mother
Qi Ma's body was tense, but she didn't pull Meng Li's arm. She said:
"that's OK."
"Mom, can I not make up lessons today?" Meng Li looks at Qi Ma with burning eyes.
"At this point, it's too late to eat."
Qi Ma's heart suddenly got a little angry. The child pushed his nose on his face.
"Well, I'll give you a holiday." Dad Qi spoke.
Qi's mother suppresses her anger. She laughs awkwardly at Meng Li, and then reaches out her hand to touch Meng Li's head. Meng Li rubs her head on Qi's arm for a few times. It's a good way to act coquettishly.
Meng Li, would you mind using it more.
Qi Ma suddenly had a strange feeling.
All in all, this feeling is not bad.