I want to marry my daughter-in-law, and then the children can gather together to buy a house for their son and daughter-in-law. After all, isn't it popular for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to live differently now?
In order to avoid more conflicts, the first 50 years of the client's life were actually plain and happy. Although he was not rich, his husband was considerate and his son was obedient, so he was able to live well.
Husband is good, so all the focus of life is not entirely on the son, can accept different living, thinking is also open-minded.
But because of this daughter-in-law, everything has changed.
In fact, it's not 300000 yuan. At that time, the two families sat together and said that 300000 yuan of betrothal money would go through the stage and hold up a scene. After that, they would bring 200000 yuan back, and the remaining 100000 yuan would be regarded as the real betrothal money.
The woman doesn't have to marry anything. It's about going to see the house after the wedding.
Two hundred thousand is the down payment of the old couple. It's sincerity money to take it out so early. After all, the wife's family is worried that the old couple won't be able to pay the money if they get married.
In order to dispel their worries, the woman's family will not let go at all.
The old couple are easy to talk, as long as the children live a good life.
Their city is not a big city. 200000 yuan plus tens of thousands of yuan from my son will be enough to buy a three bedroom with a down payment of 100 square meters in a similar area.
My son is also a person who has worked for several years. He usually eats and drinks at home without paying any money. He always has some savings.
I don't mean to treat my daughter-in-law badly.
Before she came, her family conditions had been clearly stated to her. There were no luxury houses, and she had no opinion.
They don't lag far behind in terms of ordinary people's conditions. Ordinary people have them, and so do their daughter-in-law.
But when the wedding was finished, the client asked his son why he didn't look at the house. The son said he didn't bring the money back.
Client:??
Is the family ignorant?
It's very unpleasant in my heart. Didn't we talk about it at that time?
Originally, they didn't have so much money for betrothal gifts, and according to the customs here, the women's family would marry a little.
It's interesting enough that you don't want any dowry.
And now what about the 200000 we're going to bring back?
I didn't bring anything back. It's not a small sum of money. I have a pimple in my heart.
I can't help asking my son, where is the money?
The son said that he was taken by his brother-in-law to open a shop and used it when he joined in the decoration.
Tang Shaoyuan saw that his mother's expression was not very good, so he comforted the client and said that he just embezzled it for a while. When his brother-in-law earned money, he would give it back to them.
He and his wife are not in a hurry to buy a house for the time being, just stay at home.
The client's heart says that you two have to eat and drink at home every day. You don't have to pay any living expenses. Your father's salary has been spent and there is no money left.
But in the end is his son, this kind of words appear to be very stingy, the client did not say, but the heart is not happy.
The money saved for half of his life was wasted by his daughter-in-law's mother's brother. The client's heart was full of pain. He thought that his son and daughter-in-law had just got married and didn't dare to break out.
Isn't it unpleasant to make such a fuss?
Affect children's feelings.
I put up with it.
But in fact, the client is not very optimistic about his daughter-in-law and brother. He feels that nothing can be done. Everything is hot in three minutes.
In my heart, I feel that it's very difficult to get the money back. Although it's not a big city, house prices will also rise. If it's delayed for a few years, the down payment of $2.3 million may not be enough.
It's more reliable in the bank.
After marriage, the daughter-in-law said that she would prepare for pregnancy at home. The client would take good care of the baby all day. Preparing for pregnancy is like being pregnant. She would do nothing and eat all kinds of fruits.
What fruit you eat.
He thought the client was not good at cooking, so he called for food in the restaurant downstairs and asked the client to pay for it.
No economic considerations at all.
The client's money is all earned by the old man working in the factory. One person earns money and four people spend it. He also wants to save some money for emergencies. To be honest, being wasted by his daughter-in-law, the client feels a little painful.
Implicitly asked for money from his son, who said that all the money was in his wife's house.
The wife didn't give them, saying that they had to save their money and pay down later.
Tang Shaoyuan thought about it and tried it. He also felt that it was not good for his parents to spend money.
But his salary card is with his wife.
As a result, he was scolded by his wife and even kicked and pinched. Tang Shaoyuan ran to the living room with a sad face.
What else can the client say? You can't take it.
In addition, now the daughter-in-law is pregnant. She can eat a little expensive fruit and a little expensive takeout, so as not to say that she is being treated harshly. The client still wants to buy whatever she wants.
After being pregnant for several months, there was no movement in her daughter-in-law's stomach. However, there was movement in her daughter-in-law's stomach. She said that she wanted to have children.
Looking at the situation at home, I don't want more, just a hundred thousand.That tone quite understood the client's father-in-law. If you don't earn money, I don't want more than 100000. As long as 100000 is the result of my understanding.
The old couple of clients feel driven crazy, 100000?
Where can I get it?
They were hollowed out by 300000 before, but now they even need money to have children. They are worried and angry.
The client told his daughter-in-law that he had never heard of anyone who gave birth to a child and asked his mother-in-law about the fertility fund. You are doing something special.
You young couple can't afford it when the child is born, and we old people can help to bear it, but we have to walk 100000 before we are born, which makes us feel very uncomfortable.
The client really can't bear it any more. The previous events, together with this incident, make the client very angry. The son and daughter-in-law show their face to their daughter-in-law for the first time since their marriage.
And then the client becomes a bad mother-in-law.
The daughter-in-law is making trouble to go back to her mother's home, which makes the whole community know.
He said that he didn't have a job and was bullied by his mother-in-law at home. When a child was born, she didn't want money. Her mother-in-law just called for birth, but she didn't support it.
Only when you give money can you be confident. At that time, the birth inspection and confinement are popular. Now the confinement center is comfortable and comfortable. These expenses are very expensive.
Although the client also explained it to the outside, we are just watching the crowd. It doesn't matter who is right or wrong.
But you can't make a fool of yourself. Now we all know this crap.
The son's attitude is in a dilemma between his wife and his mother.
Coax this one, coax that one.
In fact, it's very painful, but there's no way at all. I finally married a daughter-in-law, and I like it very much. It's best to pacify both sides.
Looking at the client who couldn't sleep all night, the old man was very angry. He felt a little distressed and said:
"if you look at those who are in trouble, you can have a hundred thousand. We have only one son, which will be given to them sooner or later. Besides, we should prepare money for the birth of our grandson."
The old man thinks that 100000 yuan is a gift for his grandson. If he doesn't give the money, people won't be willing to give birth.