Chapter 2011: : Seek common ground while reserving differences to be happy (2 more)
Chapter 2011: : Seek common ground while reserving differences to be happy (2 more)
Chapter 2011: : Seek common ground while reserving differences to be happy (2 more)
Grandma Yu thinks that some people can be decisive. This is a talent and an influence of life experience.
For example, Xia Xiaolan, who dared to bring divorced Liu Fen into the city at the age of 18, grandma Yu admired her very much. Yes, the one that comes before the love is appreciation!
But if Tina can't become "Xia Xiaolan Second", she should not be criticized.
Different people and different growth experiences cannot copy Xia Xiaolan's temperament to Tina. To accept this granddaughter, Grandma Yu must accept her innocence!
Although this is not the character that Yu grandma admires, she believes that girls should be strong and should not rely too much on others, because from her personal life experience, it is never possible to predict when changes in life will come, not being strong Point, how can you survive the trough of the past life?
Yes, you can rely on your father and brother for shelter before you get married, you can rely on your husband after you get married, and you can rely on your children when you get older.
What if these people are unable to shelter?
So, what's the use of innocence? Just like'kindness', it is indeed a beautiful quality, but it is a thing that takes a lot of effort to care for. Birth, old age, sickness and death, all kinds of changes, who knows how life will treat a kind person, expecting others to care for these qualities, it is better to count on yourself!
Grandma Yu did this by herself.
No matter how bad it is, she has the belief to persevere.
But she was able to do this because she had experienced many things in her middle age.
The 18-year-old Miss Yu Jia Yu Shu couldn't do it.
Tina can't do it, isn't it normal?
Grandma Yu was not only relieved, she also looked away.
Of course she hates Zhang Jiadong, and can't wait to thwart the thief, but everyone in the world is not simply black and white. Zhang Jiadong is a bad person to her and Xu Zhongyi and Xu Changle. In front of Tina, It seems to be a'loving father'.
At least at the moment, not only Tina was at a loss and wept bitterly, but even Grandma Yu was confused.
People are dead and can't confront each other. No one can understand Zhang Jiadong's thoughts. If this person later learns that Tina is not his daughter, why should he still be nice to Tina?
Xia Xiaolan quietly exited the ward, leaving Grandma Yu and Tina alone space.
"Perhaps, it was watching her birth, raising her and growing up, and devoted all his efforts to caring. When it was discovered that she was not her own daughter, the feelings she had paid could no longer be recovered..."
Blood relationship is very important.
Blood relationship is not so important.
Those who raised the wrong child, found their own children, and were reluctant to separate from the wrong child.
Adopted children learn the truth when they become adults, and most of them will get closer to their adoptive parents and reject their biological parents.
Even if she herself had complained about her cousin in her previous life, why did she adopt her and treat her badly and cant raise her as a biological child. If they treat her like that, she will definitely treat her cousin and cousin as her biological parents. Will do better than her own daughter!
She is smart enough to study, but almost dropped out of school.
When working and studying on her own, she did complain.
I have been raising them for 10 years. As long as she persists for the last few years, she will be able to repay her cousin and her husband. Why did she give up halfway?
For a few years, she was suffocating a sigh of fierceness, and wanted to make her auntie and his wife regret it... Later, she really made a small achievement, and she bought two sets for her auntie in her hometown, but the fierceness of her was lost inexplicably.
She really has no right to blame each other.
If she is willing to give her an orphan a bite of food, an eaves for shelter from the wind and rain would be good.
Is it true that she should be regarded as more important than her own children?
There may be such a holy father and mother in the world, but the cousin and his wife are not. They are just ordinary people. They cannot be demanded with the highest moral standards, but they are definitely not bad guys.
Xia Xiaolan was relieved of this incident in her last life.
But Tina reminded her of it again.
Xia Xiaolan was a little confused. She looked up and saw Liu Fen standing in the hospital corridor. The confusion was immediately behind her.
Tina is entangled, she is not entangled, why should be affected by these negative emotions, Comrade Affin will always be by her side.
"Mom!"
"Hey, Tina is awake?"
"Wake up, Grandma Yu is talking to her inside, so I exited the room first."
"Let them say it, Tina must be frightened this time. I guessed a lot of situations, and I never guessed that Wilson and Mrs. Wilson were so bad... After this incident, I don't know if Tina will be more like Yu and the others. Get closer."
Liu Fen looked slightly sad.
Xia Xiaolan took her arm and smiled, "Personal safety is the best. This kind of experience is terrible, and it may not be a good thing. Let Grandma Yu and Uncle Xu take care of it by themselves."
That is natural.
Liu Fen is still very scared.
Not only is Tina afraid of her accident, but Xia Xiaolan is more important. Even if she is selfish, no one is more important than her daughter.
"Your teacher Mao asked you, do you want to visit the museum?"
"Yes, go today. After visiting the museum, do you still want to play in the United States? If you don't want to play, I also want to go back to China."
The lawsuit was won and the news spread back to China, and the school was very happy.
However, the department granted her leave and gave her special treatment. It was not for her to travel in the United States. It was agreed with AIA that the museum design, which was finally reported by the two magazines, should start early.
This afternoon, Xia Xiaolan visited the Metropolitan Museum with Mao Kangshan, Professor Wen and Professor McCarthy.
Sure enough, there were clouds of art in the collection, and three people took turns to teach her on-site.
In this process, the rivalry between Mao Kangshan and McCarthy was not particularly strong, so there were hundreds of tricks you came to me, right sympathy? Impossible, until they return to China, the two people are not pleasing to each other.
The last words McCarthy said to Mao Kangshan were:
"If you feel that you are too old to continue teaching her, I hope you can make the right choice and don't delay her!"
Mao Kangshan was still angry while sitting on the plane, and kept asking Aunt Song:
"I'm old?"
"I can still eat two bowls of rice at one meal!"
"I can still teach Xiaolan until I'm 80!"
"No, I have to live to be 90 years old. He wants to kill me, take over my apprentice, and dream!"
What can Xia Xiaolan say?
The old is still young. There is an old family in the family. It is really like a treasure. Let alone, Mao Kangshan always felt that McCarthy was waiting to grab his apprentices. After returning to China, he paid more attention to caring for his body. He had a great deal of striving to live to 99, which made McCarthy's hopes come to nothing.
Xia Xiaolan was actually very moved.
Whether it is her master, McCarthy, or Professor Wen, so many people are moved to treat her well.
Even Kissinger, whose interests are supreme, didn't give up on her at the critical moment.