Chapter 241: : Put the differences aside for the time being (1167 votes plus more)
Chapter 241: : Put the differences aside for the time being (1167 votes plus more)
Chapter 241: : Put the differences aside for the time being (1167 votes plus more)
At the age of 20, she was just in her sophomore year.
After graduating from university, she was only 23 years old. Are you married at 23? She still has her own career, she even misses her studies, and may choose to go abroad for further studies. This is still undecided. Taking a life for nothing, still not enjoying youth arbitrarily, with the experience of the previous life, must try to go to a higher place, get married early, and be entangled in family trivialities and relationships?
Xia Xiaolan couldn't help but shudder, this is not the life she wants.
Zhou Cheng felt particularly puzzled: "Don't you want to marry me? Marriage means that the relationship between the two of us becomes legal. You are my daughter-in-law and you can stay overnight in the army! This will not change anything, I will still treat you Well, there is even a chance to be better for you... If you are worried that my family will oppose, I will definitely handle these things, and I will never let you fuck, nor will you be wronged!"
Isn't it just for getting married?
When he gets married, he can hug his wife upright, hug him, share a bed, take care of her, dress and comb her hair, and give her all his money. Zhou Cheng is really looking forward to marrying Xia Xiaolan. He wants to stay with her at all times. The name is written on the marriage certificate. When he grows old, he is buried in the same tomb. The two names are written on the tombstone. They are inseparable until death. !
Xia Xiaolan looked at him carefully.
This face is really young and beautiful.
From the perspective of the relationship between men and women, Zhou Cheng's heart is not stained with dust.
Only Xia Xiaolan was in his eyes, and she was all in his heart.
Does Xia Xiaolan like Zhou Cheng?
Like it!
But she didn't put the love between men and women first. She felt that the world was too exciting. She wanted to make a breakthrough and take a look at her youth! She and Zhou Cheng's cognition of dating is correct, but they are not at the same pace. Xia Xiaolan had never thought of entering marriage so quickly, especially as the wife of a soldier, she was not ready to be a military wife.
On this issue, Zhou Cheng is a bit difficult to communicate.
We can't say who is wrong, but everyone's ideas are different. This is an individual difference. Xia Xiaolan cannot roughly categorize Zhou Cheng's ideas as mistakes.
She thought for a while, and decided to explain to Zhou Cheng carefully:
"Zhou Cheng, I may have to apply for the Department of Architecture. If I go to school in the Shanghai Stock Exchange, I can choose Tongji University. But if you are in Beijing, I have to choose a university in Beijing. The best is the Department of Architecture of Huaqing University. Of course, Huaqing Its harder to test than Tongji, and Im not sure about it. But youre here, Im willing to give it a try... But that doesnt mean that we will get married soon. Love is love and marriage is marriage. The two cannot be confused. What I want to do now is to finish college first, and our relationship will develop naturally. When the time comes, I will consider whether to change from a lover to a husband and wife."
Xia Xiaolan is very cautious about marriage. Marriage is not only love, it is more like a contract signed by both men and women after careful consideration. No, the contract is too rigid and more like a covenant. Once it is signed, it will be painful to both parties.
This may be the difference between her and Zhou Cheng.
The influence of birth and growth on a person is more profound than she thinks. Her parents died young, and under the fence, Xia Xiaolan has never experienced a healthy and harmonious family atmosphere. She longs for a family, but she is also afraid of forming a family hastily.
Zhou Cheng is different. Zhou Cheng has a good family background, and his growth process is particularly emboldened.
If you like to get married by yourself, it is very easy for Zhou Cheng to get married. This is his confidence... He is not afraid of changes in the relationship between the two, and the marriage may fail, because he has self-confidence and he can afford to lose!
Thinking like this seemed to be quite unfair to Zhou Cheng, but Xia Xiaolan still decided to tell her true thoughts.
Zhou Cheng obviously didn't expect it.
He felt that Xia Xiaolan's thinking was too complicated, why should simple things be so complicated?
Others can get married at the same time. He and Xiaolan are not introduced to each other on a blind date. The two like each other. He does not need money to raise a wife. He has love and material resources. Why can't he get married?
Zhou Cheng knew that he couldn't reverse Xia Xiaolan's thoughts for a while, and he and Xiaolan had a disagreement.
Of course he is not happy.
But the two can't quarrel, it will make things worse. Zhou Cheng is not at all temperamental, he feels that big men can't care about lesbians. Xia Xiaolan's ideas didn't convince him, but he still wanted to marry her daughter-in-law home as soon as possible.
Today's timing is too inappropriate, Zhou Yi brought Tong Lili to appear, ruining this beautiful night.
Zhou Cheng hugged Xia Xiaolan, "I will consider what you say. This is different from what I thought. You always have to give me time to digest, right? Good, let's not quarrel, I will ask Kang Wei to take me back to the army. The next time I meet you may be after the college entrance examination, I will take you to eat something, OK?"
Zhou Cheng's EQ is not low. Doesn't he know what to say on what occasion?
He knows too well!
But he did not maliciously expend energy to treat other suitors until he met Xia Xiaolan. This is the woman he likes, coaxing used to it, he is happy!
Kang Wei and Shao Guangrong stood far away and did not come. Originally, the two seemed to be quarreling, and the flames of war went out again.
Kang Wei felt spicy eyes.
Dont look at Xia Xiaolans speaking softly, its all an illusion. Kang Wei intuitively bowed his head must be Zhou Chengthink how awesome his brother Cheng Zi was in the past 20 years, he would be awesome when he meets him. Xia Xiaolan, let go of Gao Leng who was not in a mess.
The virginity is so terrible that it will make a person incomprehensible and unprincipled.
Kang Wei was thinking about it, when he heard that the two people seemed to have ended their dispute, Zhou Cheng raised his voice:
"Kangzi, go get your car!"
Those eyesores were still in the Beijing Hotel, and Zhou Cheng decided to take Xia Xiaolan to another place for a snack. What you eat is not important, I mainly want to get along with Xia Xiaolan for a while.
Shao Guangrong looked at the atmosphere, but he didn't dare to mention his plan.
The food was fried liver and belly. Although Zhou Cheng had been cooking with Xia Xiaolan, Xia Xiaolan didn't hold her face, the atmosphere was still a bit strange.
The two people had a disagreement.
After eating, Kang Wei sent Zhou Cheng back to the army. Xia Xiaolan had already decided to return to the business capital tomorrow. When he arrived at the door of the army, Zhou Cheng hugged her:
"Xiaolan, I like you, so I want to marry you. We can discuss this issue slowly. You can't share with me because of this, and you can't dislike me because of this. It's too unfair to me."
Xia Xiaolan felt soft.
Yes, it's too unfair to Zhou Cheng. He just likes her wholeheartedly and wants to marry her home. Even if it doesn't agree with her idea, he can't say that this idea is wrong.
"I'm not angry, I like your heart has not changed, you work hard, I study hard, we will all become better! Come on, Zhou Cheng!"
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