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Chapter 342: parenting concerns
Chapter 342: parenting concerns
??Chapter 342 Parenting Concerns
?? She has worked so hard to bring up her child, but made herself miserable in her later years. Then what is the point of her hard work all her life?
Qian Xuefen patted Xu Yunying's shoulder, "Yunying, don't worry too much, your family Xu Bing and Xu Qing look good, and they shouldn't marry a daughter-in-law and forget their mother. When they are busy, they don't care It should be possible to go to the old lady."
?? "But now I can prepare myself for a retreat, and now I'm slowly saving money for myself."
?? "I don't dare to pin all my hopes on Fang Xia and Lu Xia. After all, after they get married in the future, they will not belong to me alone."
?? After finishing speaking, Qian Xuefen couldn't help sighing. She worked hard all her life and gave everything for her children, and she didn't know what the children would return to her when she was old.
??But if you have money, even if the child is not filial, it should not be too miserable.
?? "The children are not married yet. It's too early for us to worry about these things." Although Xu Yunying said so, she also knew that it was not too early to start thinking about these things.
??Because her eldest son is eighteen years old and has reached the age of marriage, and Qian Xuefen's eldest daughter is also fourteen years old, so she can't stay at home for a few years.
Qian Xuefen nodded, "I'm still thinking too pessimistically, maybe they won't let us down in the future? No matter what stage we are in, we just need to do what we should do, and leave the rest to fate! "
??Now they have saved a lot of money, even if the children are really unfilial in the future, the old sisters of them can support each other, and they will not be left alone when they are old.
?? What's more, they already have a partner now. Although they haven't made it public yet, it's a certainty. They don't have to worry about dying alone.
?? It does not mean that a son must be unfilial, but that after a son marries a wife and has a child, he has to consider the mood of his daughter-in-law and take care of his own small family.
?? I really don't have so much energy to take care of my parents.
??So we still have to work hard to manage ourselves so as not to drag down the children.
?? After all, there is no easy person in life.
Xu Yunying chatted with Qian Xuefen for a while, and then went home, because the children can live alone when they reach the age of sixteen, Xu Yunying's eldest son and second son are separated, and now Xu Yunying and Xu Yujie are left to live together .
??Because Xu Yunying is not used to children, now her three children can wash and cook, so it is no problem to take care of themselves.
??When Xu Yunying returned home, Xu Yujie had washed the dishes and cleaned the stove, and was sitting by the window of her room reading a book facing the sun!
??Fortunately, a school was built in the village and Song Xi became the principal, otherwise the children would be illiterate at home!
??In the future, they will follow the same generation as theirs. They can only farm with their faces facing the loess and their backs facing the sky, but the yield is not high, and they can't even fill their stomachs.
?? Only by reading can there be hope!
??The internal structure of the brick and tile houses built by everyone is almost three bedrooms, one living room, one kitchen, one bathroom, one utility room and one firewood room.
??In fact, they were all built according to the drawings that Song Xi handed over to the village. However, not all houses are the same, and there will be certain differences. After all, no one wants others to know their houses well.
??Although Xu Yunying and Xu Yujie lived together, they did not live in the same room.
?? After all, children are grown up and need independent space.
??Plus this condition is also available at home, why do you have to squeeze a large family into a small room like in the city?
??Xu Yunying went back to her room and locked the door. Then she sat by the bed and opened the sack that Xin Nanjiang gave her.
??When she saw the white sweater, red wool coat, and exquisite watch inside, she seemed to be breathless and stood there in a daze.
This…
??She thought that what Xin Nanjiang gave her were dried mushrooms and wild vegetables, but she didn't expect it to be such a valuable thing.
??To be honest, although she is very rich now, she herself is reluctant to buy such expensive things.
?? Seeing Xin Nanjiang pack such precious things in a dilapidated sack, Xu Yunying felt distressed.
?? Hastily took out all the things inside, tidied them up carefully, and put them solemnly into his closet.
?? If she and Xin Nanjiang failed to go on, she would return the things to him intact, because she didn't want to owe anyone anything.
??Since frogs and snakes became difficult to catch, Song Xi and the others started the crab and spicy fish business again.
?? That’s right, it’s spicy fish.
However, it is not the fish raised in Ping'an Village, but the fish caught in the river. The fish caught in the river are like crabs. They are raised in a large tank for a few days, then salted and dried for two days before being cut into pieces. Processed into spicy fish.
??The spicy fish made is spicy, delicious and chewy. It goes well with rice when you eat, and can be used as a snack when you don’t eat.
When Song Xi was about to take the crabs out of the big water tank, she heard a knock on the door. She hurriedly put the dustpan on the big water tank, and walked over to open the door, only to see the Sheng family and Qi Xiaocao standing at the door outside.
??Because he didn't know Qi Xiaocao's personality, Song Xi didn't directly ask Sheng Jiahe why he came here before it was time to wash the crabs, but led them to sit under the sweet-scented osmanthus tree to rest.
?? Soon, Song Xi brought two cups of tea, "Sheng Jiahe, who is this? Aren't you going to introduce me?"
??At noon, when the Sheng family brought two girls to stay at Ping'an Village Primary School, they didn't introduce the two girls to her one by one, but now they bring a girl to the door alone, and they don't know what's going on behind the scenes.
??Qi Xiaocao took the bamboo cup handed over by Song Xi with both hands, and whispered, "Thank you."
Sheng Jiahe glanced at Qi Xiaocao next to him, a little embarrassed, "This is the person my cousin introduced to me, her family didn't give her a name, everyone called her Xiaocao, I took her I came here just to ask you to give her a new name, the names you gave Fang Xia and Lu Xia before are very nice."
??Qi Xiaocao nodded lightly beside her, "Yes, I don't have a name, and I don't have a household registration certificate."
??In their house, she was a non-existent person. Later, when her stepmother came in, her situation became even more difficult.
??Qi Xiaocao really can't figure out why **** men ignore their children after they marry their second wives.
??Some even let the stepmother abuse the child. Could it be that their own child is not as good as a woman?
?? Or, they think it is easy to have children, so they don't value children so much?
??Song Xi sat down opposite Sheng Jiahe and Qi Xiaocao, raised her eyebrows in surprise, "You are so old, and your family didn't even give you a name?"
??Qi Xiaocao pursed her lips, feeling very uncomfortable, she shook her head lightly, "No."
??(end of this chapter)